My mind and it's innards

Is there a way to control the way your mind thinks?

Is there a way to change your thought process?

Is there a way to interpret and understand strings of data more easily?

I've thought about these things because I know I'm not as smart as everyone else. For me, when I perceive information it's a lot harder for me to fully understand than my peers. Like philosophy, I just don't get it. It's a lot of information at once and that's just not something my brain can take in and digest.

Another example is when I talk. I don't exactly think things through when I improv speak in front of large groups and I usually sound like an idiot. It's not because I get nervous or anything, it's just a problem I have. I switch words together and mean something else entirely. I mix "he's" and "she's" a lot too.

Haha, I guess we all have our downfalls. Mine just happens to be something quite critical. I think I should read more books instead of web articles where I won't learn anything except new interesting ways of cursing.